STOP Holding Yourself Back

Have you ever caught yourself in the middle of negative thoughts, thinking you’re not good enough, not strong enough, or not capable of reaching your goals?

Most people don’t even realize it, but the biggest enemy they’re facing is the voice inside their own head.

I’m talking about that internal dialogue.

It’s subtle, but it’s there—always commenting, always judging, always tearing you down.

And what’s crazy is, we do this to ourselves!

It’s like we become our own worst critics without even realizing it.

But here’s the thing. When you constantly talk down to yourself, it doesn’t just stay in your head. It seeps into your life.

Your subconscious mind, which is way deeper than your conscious mind, picks up on all that negativity and makes it your reality.

Think about it like this:

If you keep telling yourself, “I’m not good enough to succeed in sales,” guess what? You’re going to act like it’s true. Your confidence will plummet, and you’ll avoid taking the risks you need to move forward.

But what if you flipped the script?

What if instead of saying, “I failed,” you started saying, “I learned something valuable that’s going to make me stronger?”

That shift is huge. Instead of wiring your brain to believe you’re not capable, you’re telling it you’re ready to take on whatever comes next. And that’s how you build a solid mentality.

It’s not about pretending failure doesn’t happen.

It’s about changing how you see it. Instead of letting failure define you, let it teach you.

See every setback as a lesson, a stepping stone to something greater.

That’s the mindset that leads to success.

And honestly, most people who fail to hit their goals, especially in business, aren’t held back by a lack of skills. It’s the way they talk to themselves that stops them.

So, here's your challenge:

Catch yourself the next time you’re thinking negatively. Correct it. Replace it with something productive. Because the truth is, the only thing holding you back is you.

Don’t be the person who talks shit about themselves.

Be the person who lifts themselves up, no matter what.

You’ve got this.

Go Kill It Man
- JP