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Power Of Silence
Silence is powerful
It shows the level of maturity in every man
Here are 3 things that I want you to know: (Especially if you’re young)
You probably speak too much
You probably hang around the wrong people
You probably don’t know how to ask questions
Here is why I have thrived within merely a few years
Remember….
It’s because I LISTEN to others who have receipts (people who are accomplished) and I ask them the right questions.
If you aren’t comfortable planning a trip to Portugal last minute and spending 5K on your laptop in a matter of 10 minutes you likely have some work to do.
You DO NOT KNOW SHIT about business
And you will always need to learn
So that means that you need to master the skill of silence and asking powerful questions.
I have merely said almost nothing in my environments, but have been able to thrive within
I have been in rooms with Tristan Tate, Andrew Tate, Justin Waller, Sartorial Shooter, Sheiks of Municipalities, Monaco Monarchs, Children of Billionaires, and anyone that you consider at the top.
I HAVE BEEN THERE.
That silence is a sign of respect to other high value individuals
If you do not shut the fuck up, then they will soon know that you do not belong in the circle.
The elitist circle is not a group or membership that you buy. It’s about culture….
And as long as you can: Listen and ask the right questions…
You will find yourself in the right circles soon enough.
One of my good friends mentioned a few days ago as a compliment, how I don’t really speak much in social settings
But when there is a topic of value to dig into, I always interject so that I can learn more from it.
It’s a skill that can be learned.
But that’s why I made a new course in my group “How to Speak” (Breaking down how to ask good questions and how to listen better)
Nonetheless…
Arrogance leads to thinking you know everything in the world
But it’s a defense mechanism that you must take down so that you can be open to learning.
Here’s a challenge for you to take on next time you are in a high net worth circle
Focus on LISTENING versus speaking
And ask the right questions
Go get it man
-JP
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